How can we stay calm, focused, and grounded during the holidays? This week in the U.S., we will celebrate Thanksgiving, beginning a long weekend filled with excitement and pressure. The holiday shopping season has already started, and the intensity ramps up as social media and stores compete for your attention, urging you to buy and take advantage of special offers. This can be overwhelming.
Additionally, gathering with family during this time can come with its challenges. We may feel obligated to spend time with certain people, leading to mixed emotions. Everyone approaches the holidays differently, but I see your wardrobe as an opportunity—a uniform you can wear to embody the energy you want to experience this season.
Traveling adds another layer of complexity. You may find yourself in others’ homes, away from your comfort zone. Whether you’re out with friends or attending events like the Thanksgiving Day Parade, your wardrobe can help you feel supported, regardless of the environment—cold or warm.
Here’s a valuable insight I’ve learned over the years that can help you shift from a negative to a positive experience: what you pay attention to is what you attract into your life. If you focus on negativity—such as things you dislike, frustrating people, or stressful topics like politics and economic changes—you invite that energy into your world. On the other hand, a positive mindset can empower you, attracting better energy and opportunities into your life.
Consider concentrating on what you want to attract: perhaps you desire more business opportunities, better clients, or increased visibility. To manifest these desires, you need to change your conversations. Engage with people who share positive experiences about their careers and successes. By surrounding yourself with uplifting energy, you’ll create a different atmosphere for interaction.
Establishing strong foundations to keep you focused on the positive is essential, especially when challenges arise. If you are worried about meeting up with family or friends due to difficulties in your life, shifting your thoughts can help create more positive interactions with these individuals.
Additionally, view your wardrobe as part of your comfort zone. You set the tone for your day when you wear outfits that make you feel amazing and confident—like shoes that empower you, pants that fit well, or accessories that complete your look. Embrace this approach to ensure you have the best holidays possible, even in the company of challenging individuals.
I’ve created three festive looks for holiday inspiration. As always, these looks are meant to inspire your full outfit or provide ideas for individual pieces that bring you joy for all your events.
1. For a classic holiday look, consider combining red, white, and silver. I love this color palette because it features festive colors you likely have in your closet. Pulling them together in an outfit creates a more festive touch.
The most versatile piece is a white vest that can be worn on its own or layered over a red long-sleeve shirt. Depending on how you style the vest, it suits warmer and colder climates. To complete the outfit, add silver shoes for a polished touch that elevates your appearance. You can choose either flats or heels.
I particularly adore a checkered coat that brightens the entire ensemble. A long wool coat in a unique gingham pattern is a perfect way to finish the look.
2. Consider this chocolate brown sparkle dress if you plan a glamorous night out. It’s a unique color that looks rich and adds festive touches with silver accents. Pair it with a gorgeous embroidered wool coat from Valentino Garavani—an investment that will earn you compliments and elevate your formal event.
3. I’ve assembled a fun and festive outfit featuring a long faux leather pleated skirt from A.L.C. I recommend pairing it with beautiful Christmas plaid heels from Manolo Blahnik and a Viola cropped jacket adorned with velvet bows to enhance the look. This distinctive ensemble is perfect for a holiday party. Add a long red wool coat from Valentino Garavani to finish the outfit.
I have something for you to consider for your holiday wish: gifting yourself a makeover. If you’ve been thinking about working with me, now is the perfect time to make that gift to yourself. Personal styling services can enhance your appearance and boost your confidence, making you feel reassured and supported during the holiday season.
I don’t offer gift certificates because this is a personal choice you should make for yourself. However, I always recommend that clients ask for money during the holidays so they can invest it in working with me and shopping.
If we haven’t spoken yet, let’s schedule a time to discuss the perfect package tailored to your needs. Everyone’s journey is unique; it’s not just about the clothes; it’s about transforming yourself to bring out your best version and live the life you desire—be it in your career, health, appearance, or simply having fun.
Book a call with me this week! I value your time and would love to discuss how we can make this holiday season a truly special one for you.