His advice was to always take a vacation before starting a new job.
This wisdom came from a previous manager, and I’ve found it invaluable through several career changes and while starting my own business.
When you embark on a new chapter in your life, you start with a blank slate. We learn a lot from our past experiences—what we didn’t like and what we want to change. Often, our biggest mistake is carrying old patterns into this new chapter. But remember, you are free to break these old habits and mindsets, liberating yourself from the past and opening up to new possibilities.
Your new chapter can begin whenever you choose. Whether transitioning to a new job or reinventing your business, everything is new, but the key is to leave the old self behind. You have the power to decide when and how to start this new journey.
It’s about telling a new story without explaining the old one. This presents a valuable challenge: crafting a narrative for the next stage of your life that allows you to see results more quickly. This process of self-reflection is crucial for understanding what you want and need in this new chapter of your life.
In this new story, you’ll be a refreshed version of yourself. As you enter this new job, consider what changes you want to make in your appearance and mindset.
If it means you are done wearing suits, it’s time to find a local donation center that accepts suits to support needy women, such as Bottomless Closet or Dress for Success. These organizations accept suits and accessories to help empower women entering the workforce. I’ve heard many people express that they continue to hold onto suits they no longer wear, so this step is important.
During any job transition or business reinvention, take the time to regroup and clean out your closet to reflect this new version of yourself.
This process will help you solidify your new identity and make staying committed to your new story easier.