It doesn’t matter your age, size, or marital status, every woman wants to feel sexy on a daily basis.
We’ve all met women who aren’t necessarily the most gorgeous woman in the room, but their confidence is so strong she has everyone’s attention.
Like most things, feeling confident is a mindset. An internal conversation reminding ourselves that we’ve got it! Do you know the key to this formula? It’s an external accessory that once we put it on our energy shifts.
My mentor Todd Herman calls this the “alter ego”. It’s all about creating another personality at work, in your social life, or in any other area where you need to feel different than who you might be naturally.
You would be surprised to know that many successful people have to alter egos and it’s part of their success. Just look at Beyoncé who’s alter ego she calls Sasha Fierce.
So what about creating your sexy formula for date night or at work?
Where do you begin?
What makes you feel sexy?
Bold Lipstick, high heels, statement necklaces, a particular fragrance, smokey eyes, red underwear, silk scarves? The list can go on as to what specifically works for you. Maybe it is something you have never thought of before
The key is to find one or two items that when you wear them trigger your sexy self.
For me, it’s a pair of heels ( love red ;), and my favorite perfume, Jasmine Rouge by Tom Ford, paired with Red Lipstick.
Sometimes it’s a pair of high heel boots and skinny jeans for a sexy boho look. The moment I wear these pieces I feel confident, at ease, and ready to take on the world.
So now it’s your turn. Think about your current wardrobe I’m sure there’s one item you know that gives you that sexy feeling.
Can’t think of anything?
Well, it’s time to go shopping!
Head over to your favorite makeup counter and ask the makeup artist to help you select some bold color lipsticks or consider having her do a smokey eye and see how it feels.
You never know until you try!
The best thing about makeup is that it’s temporary so if you don’t like it you can always take it off.
After you visit the makeup counter head over to the fragrance counter and ask the gal to show you the most seductive and exotic scents.
My Favorites: Tom Ford’s Cafe Rose, Jasmine Rouge, and Velvet Orchid!
Fragrance is a personal thing, but your honey may not necessarily find the scents you love as sexy so if you’re in a relationship be sure to get a sample and see if your guy likes it too!
Next, head over to the shoe department and browse the high heels. Not a high-heel girl? Consider color and shoe shape. There is a size, shape and color to fit all your needs. Check out this fabulous Italian company called mgemi, a very unique Italian company with custom high-quality shoes made of real Italian leather… you will feel sexy and luxurious.
Oh, let me add that several years ago, I bought a pair of red high heels that every time I wore them I always got compliments, no matter how many times the same people saw me in these shoes they always had something nice to say and when people are paying you compliments you feel good, so good that you just never know what you will do next 😉 Maybe you will finally take on that opportunity you’ve been secretly waiting for.
Lastly, take the path to the lingerie department and treat yourself to that sexy bra and panty that doesn’t have to be just for date night, you can wear it any time and boost your sexy confidence off the charts! You would be surprised to learn that many women have these secret lingerie pieces for regular wear!
Now, here’s the key to making this formula work for you. Buy only what feels right to you!
The reason I’m suggesting you go to the store is that you can browse for something that maybe you’ve never considered. Sample different combinations like shoes and lipstick, or lingerie and a scent. You won’t know until you try.
Does it have to be expensive? No, the only thing it needs to be is something that makes you feel so good. So a pair of sexy panties from Victoria Secrets is just as good as luxury lipstick from Tom Ford!
All right now it’s time for you to go shopping and be sure to leave a comment below and share with me what you find. I want to know what your Sexy Confidence Formula is.
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