The weather has finally turned cold in Connecticut and it’s time to break out the cold weather clothes. I admit I hate the cold in fact my mood just drops along with the temperature. I have to dress in layers just to stay warm.
This past weekend I got dressed then changed my mind at the last minute and changed into a pair of pants that don’t really make me feel my best. As I went about my day I just felt irritated. OK, I admit, it was that time of the month, but still, it was impacting my mood. So, as soon as I could I went home to change and boom I was good again.
What you wear matters and when you wear clothes that don’t feel good, it impacts your mood.
Waking up with a closet full of clothes you hate creates negative energy in your space and subconscious mind.
Each morning you have that time to select an outfit and it turns into a meltdown you increase that negative energy in your closet and your mind.
So let’s turn that around.
Think about what you are wearing today, does it make you feel confident, sexy, and slim? If not, why are you wearing it? Are you settling because you don’t have time to shop, you can’t find clothes that fit your body type, or because of your finances?
Asking yourself these questions will help you clarify why you settled for an unflattering wardrobe that does not bring out the best in your beautiful self.
Here’s what you do over the next 9 days (9 is a good luck number):
When you get dressed in the morning, if you put on an outfit that doesn’t feel good take it out and throw it in a bag of clothes you are going to donate. This little exercise over the next 9 days will kickstart your mind into saying “Enough! I’m not settling anymore I refuse to wear clothes that don’t honor who I am. I’m deciding that I’m worth it and I’m going to wear only clothes that uplift me.”
This may be a challenging exercise but I want you to do it! Journal what begins to happen to you over the next 9 days.
Here are three questions to ask yourself when you are getting dressed.
These 3 questions will help you clarify what’s not working in your wardrobe.
Everything is energy and just as I teach about the energy in your environments you need to be conscious of the energy you are putting on your body.
I promise you this exercise is going to have a big impact on your self-confidence.
Now I want to hear from you!
Comment below and tell me what your wardrobe struggles have been and what guidance you need to need to clear out your closet.
Love and Success,
