Last week, I shared my transformative journey from the corporate world to the realm of feng shui, reflecting on the lessons I wish I had grasped sooner. One crucial insight I discovered was the importance of leaving behind old patterns and embracing a new identity to experience greater joy and success in any career transition.
As I ventured into the world as a feng shui expert, I began engaging with various audiences through talks at stores and community events. Each venue was unique, from spiritual gatherings to small local meetings, and I was learning to navigate the different energies and expectations associated with them.
One pivotal moment came when I met a woman named Evana, who was teaching about fashion feng shui. Her approach sparked my curiosity, and I was eager to delve deeper into her unique process. In her workshop, I learned to connect style with the five elements: water, wood, earth, fire, and metal. Evana’s insightful assessments guided us in identifying our true essence and intentions, a process that deeply resonated with me.
As I immersed myself in her teachings, I found a profound connection between wardrobe choices and personal identity. I discovered that my essence was a blend of Metal and Fire, a combination that perfectly encapsulated my love for elegance, structured pieces, and vibrant statement items. This revelation brought to mind my fabulous personal style session with Bridgette, but Evana’s deeper assessment solidified my understanding of my personality and the vision I had for my career.
Motivated by this newfound clarity, I became a fashion feng shui practitioner. I began working with clients on their home energy and fashion choices. Witnessing transformations in both myself and my clients was deeply rewarding. However, I noticed that while many flourished, some struggled. This realization ignited a desire to uncover how I could better serve my clients.
At this crossroads, I met Todd Herman, a performance coach renowned for guiding athletes and celebrities. He taught me about identity transformation, explaining that individuals don’t bring their everyday selves; they embody a different persona on the playing field. Often, they have a signature piece—like a uniform, a pair of glasses, or a distinctive accessory—that allows them to step into this alter ego, shedding old beliefs and patterns that hold them back.
I was captivated by Todd’s teachings, which reminded me of a bracelet I used to wear, affectionately dubbed the “Wonder Woman bracelet.” When I adorned it, I felt an undeniable power surge; even men would often compliment its striking presence. Todd’s insights were profound, yet I soon learned that the true magic lies in mindset and creating a new look that resonates with this evolving persona.
Have you ever returned from a week-long retreat filled with healing, only to face the challenge of readjusting to your everyday life? The initial excitement of home soon gives way to the difficulty of aligning your outer world with your inner transformation. Dr. Joe Dispenza discusses this phenomenon, emphasizing that personal evolution involves energy and feeling. It’s the foundational message echoed by Abraham Hicks regarding the importance of vibrational alignment.
As we approach 2025, I invite you to reflect on your inner work and what external changes will support this new version of yourself. Are you ready to embrace your deepest desires, no matter how chaotic the world may seem?
It’s time to build out your new personality—and as your stylist, I’m here to help you every step of the way. Together, we can create a wardrobe that reflects your essence and empowers you to shine in every aspect of your life. Let’s embark on this transformative journey together!